Immanuel – God With Us

What do you do when the Festival of Lights gets interrupted by darkness?

Just this week, families gathered at Bondi Beach in Australia to celebrate Hanukkah—the Festival of Lights, commemorating God’s miraculous provision when the temple oil lasted eight days instead of one. Children played, families laughed, menorahs flickered against the ocean breeze. Then gunshots shattered the celebration. A ten-year-old child was killed. The Festival of Lights was interrupted by the darkest kind of violence.

Where is God when chaos erupts into our carefully planned celebrations? When violence invades our sacred moments? When the impossible becomes our reality?

These aren’t abstract theological questions. They’re the questions keeping people awake at night as they scroll through headlines filled with international tensions, economic uncertainty, and seemingly random violence. They’re the questions Joseph faced 2,000 years ago when his own impossible situation threatened to destroy everything he thought he knew about God’s plan.

But this isn’t the first time God’s people have faced such darkness. Isaiah spoke to a people walking in similar fear when he declared:

“The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who dwelt in a land of deep darkness, on them has light shone” (Isaiah 9:2).

The promise of light in darkness runs through Scripture like a golden thread, and it finds its ultimate fulfillment in the child who would be called Immanuel.

Today we’re looking at Matthew 1:18-25, and I want to show you that this story isn’t about God making everything easy—it’s about God making Himself present in our difficulties. The name Immanuel isn’t just a theological concept; it’s God’s practical response to human chaos, fear, and impossible circumstances.

When circumstances seem impossible, God doesn’t observe our chaos from heaven—He enters it.

When Circumstances Seem Impossible

Let me paint the picture of Joseph’s situation, because until we understand how impossible his circumstances were, we can’t appreciate the magnitude of God’s intervention.

Joseph was a righteous man—that’s not just a nice compliment, it’s a technical description. He was committed to following God’s law in every detail. He was betrothed to Mary, which in first-century Jewish culture was far more serious than our modern engagements. Betrothal was legally binding, requiring a formal divorce to dissolve. The couple was considered husband and wife in every way except they didn’t live together or have sexual relations during the betrothal period, which typically lasted about a year.

Then Mary turned up pregnant.

You see, this wasn’t just awkward—it was legally, socially, and morally impossible for Joseph to proceed. According to the law, if a betrothed woman was unfaithful, she could be publicly accused and stoned. At minimum, Joseph was required to divorce her. His righteousness—his commitment to God’s law—actually created his dilemma rather than solving it.

Joseph faced four impossible circumstances:

First, the legal impossibility. He couldn’t marry a woman who appeared to be unfaithful without violating God’s law. But he also couldn’t proceed with the betrothal as if nothing had happened.

Second, the social impossibility. If he married Mary, he would be publicly acknowledging that either he had violated the betrothal covenant himself, or he was willing to overlook her apparent unfaithfulness. Either way, his reputation and standing in the community would be destroyed.

Third, the moral impossibility. As a righteous man, how could he participate in what appeared to be the covering up of sin? How could he raise a child that wasn’t his own while pretending it was?

Fourth, the practical impossibility. Even if he could somehow navigate the legal and social issues, how do you build a marriage on what appears to be deception? How do you trust someone who seems to have betrayed you at the most fundamental level?

Here’s what I want you to see: Joseph’s situation wasn’t just difficult—it was genuinely impossible. There was no good option. Every path forward led to either legal violation, social disgrace, moral compromise, or personal devastation.

Sound familiar?

How many of you are facing circumstances right now that feel genuinely impossible? Maybe it’s a medical diagnosis where the doctors have used words like “terminal” or “inoperable.” Maybe it’s a financial situation where the numbers simply don’t add up, no matter how many times you run them. Maybe it’s a relationship that’s broken beyond repair, or a family situation where every option seems to lead to more pain.

Or maybe it’s the bigger picture that feels impossible. You turn on the news and see children being shot at religious celebrations. You watch international tensions escalate. You see violence erupting in places that used to feel safe. You wonder if the world your children are inheriting is going to be livable.

Joseph’s story speaks to our impossible circumstances because it shows us that God specializes in entering impossibility, not avoiding it.

God’s Answer: Presence, Not Distance

“But when he had considered this, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, ‘Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife; for the Child who has been conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit.'” (Matthew 1:20)

Notice the timing. Joseph had been wrestling with this impossible situation. The text says he had “considered” it—that’s a word that means he had been turning it over and over in his mind, trying to find a solution that didn’t exist. He had decided on the most merciful option available: a quiet divorce that would minimize Mary’s public shame.

Then God intervened.

But look carefully at how God intervened. The angel doesn’t say, “Don’t worry, Joseph, this isn’t really happening.” He doesn’t minimize the impossibility of the situation. Instead, he addresses Joseph’s specific fears with a specific promise: “Do not be afraid.”

Here’s what’s crucial to understand: “Do not fear” isn’t generic encouragement—it’s God’s response to legitimate threats.

Throughout Scripture, when God says “do not fear,” He’s not telling people to ignore imaginary problems. He’s addressing real dangers, real impossibilities, real threats. Listen to this pattern:

To Abraham facing powerful enemies:

“Fear not, Abram, I am your shield; your reward shall be very great” (Genesis 15:1).

To Joshua facing the conquest of Canaan:

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:9).

To Mary facing an impossible pregnancy:

“And the angel said to her, ‘Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God'” (Luke 1:30).

And now to Joseph facing social disgrace and moral confusion: “Do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife.”

“Do not fear” is God’s promise of presence in the face of real impossibility.

The angel explains that Mary’s pregnancy isn’t the result of unfaithfulness—it’s the result of divine intervention. The child has been conceived by the Holy Spirit. This isn’t a problem to be solved; it’s a miracle to be embraced.

You see, this echoes what the angel told Mary herself. When she asked, “How will this be, since I am a virgin?” the angel replied:

“The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you… For nothing will be impossible with God” (Luke 1:34-35, 37).

The same God who spoke to Abraham and Sarah when childbearing was impossible, the same God who promised Isaac when “Is anything too hard for the Lord?” (Genesis 18:14) was asked, now works another impossible conception.

But here’s the deeper truth that Matthew wants us to see. This isn’t just about solving Joseph’s immediate problem. This is about God’s ultimate answer to human impossibility. Look at verse 23:

“Behold, the virgin shall be with child and shall bear a Son, and they shall call His name Immanuel,” which translated means, “God with us.” (Matthew 1:23)

This prophecy reaches back to Isaiah 7:14, where it was first given to King Ahaz during a time of national terror. Enemy armies were approaching Jerusalem. Fear gripped the nation. King Ahaz’s heart “shook as the trees of the forest shake before the wind” (Isaiah 7:2). Into that fear, God offered a sign:

“Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel” (Isaiah 7:14).

Even the name itself appears again in Isaiah’s prophecy: “For God is with us” (Isaiah 8:10). God’s answer to national crisis wasn’t military strategy—it was His presence.

Immanuel. God with us.

Not “God helps us” from a distance. Not “God guides us” through difficult circumstances. Not “God blesses us” when we figure things out. God with us. God present in our circumstances. God entering our chaos rather than observing it from heaven.

You see, the incarnation isn’t just about God becoming human—it’s about God’s commitment to being present with us in our impossibility. Paul captures the magnitude of this in Philippians 2:6-8:

“Though he was in the form of God, [he] did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.”

God didn’t just observe our chaos—He entered it. The writer of Hebrews explains why this was necessary:

“Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same things, that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death… For because he himself has suffered when tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted” (Hebrews 2:14, 18).

The good news isn’t that God will fix all our problems from heaven. The good news is that God has come to be with us in our problems.

This speaks directly to our current moment of chaos and fear. When we see violence erupting at religious celebrations, when we watch children being targeted, when we feel overwhelmed by the darkness in our world, the question isn’t “Why doesn’t God stop this from heaven?” The answer is “God has entered this broken world to transform it from within.”

This story begins with chaos, not peace. It begins with an impossible situation, not a perfect one. It begins with fear, not comfort. And into that chaos, impossibility, and fear, God comes as Immanuel—God with us.

Faith That Acts Without Full Understanding

“And Joseph awoke from his sleep and did as the angel of the Lord commanded him, and took Mary as his wife.” (Matthew 1:24)

Here’s what amazes me about Joseph’s response: it was immediate and complete. The text doesn’t record any questions, any conditions, any requests for additional proof. Joseph woke up and did exactly what the angel commanded.

But let’s be clear about what Joseph did and didn’t understand. He understood that God was doing something miraculous. He understood that Mary was innocent. He understood that he was being called to participate in God’s plan. But he didn’t understand how virgin birth was possible. He didn’t understand what it would mean to raise the Messiah. He didn’t understand how this would affect his life, his marriage, his future.

Joseph acted in faith without full understanding.

The angel had explained the immediate situation—Mary’s pregnancy was from the Holy Spirit, and Joseph should proceed with the marriage. But the angel didn’t explain the mechanics of virgin birth. He didn’t outline a detailed plan for the next thirty years. He didn’t promise that everything would be easy or that Joseph would understand everything as it unfolded.

Joseph had to trust God’s character when he couldn’t see the complete picture.

And here’s where the name Immanuel becomes so crucial. Matthew connects Joseph’s story to Isaiah’s prophecy, but notice this isn’t the only time God promises His presence to His people. This is a pattern woven throughout Scripture:

To Jacob fleeing his brother’s anger:

“Behold, I am with you and will keep you wherever you go” (Genesis 28:15).

To Moses facing Pharaoh:

“I will be with you” (Exodus 3:12).

To Joshua entering the Promised Land:

“I will not leave you or forsake you” (Joshua 1:5).

God’s answer wasn’t to remove the crisis—it was to promise His presence in the crisis. “God with us” was the assurance that whatever happened, they wouldn’t face it alone.

The same is true for us. Faith doesn’t mean having all the answers. Faith means trusting that God’s presence is sufficient even when His plan isn’t fully revealed. Faith means acting on what God has made clear even when much remains unclear.

Joseph’s obedience teaches us several crucial lessons about faith in impossible circumstances:

First, faith acts on God’s word even when circumstances seem to contradict it. Everything in Joseph’s experience suggested that Mary had been unfaithful. But God’s word through the angel contradicted that appearance. Joseph chose to believe God’s word over his own interpretation of circumstances. James would later write:

“But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves” (James 1:22).

Joseph was a doer of the word.

Second, faith trusts God’s character when outcomes are uncertain. Joseph didn’t know how things would work out. He didn’t know what it would mean to be the earthly father of the Messiah. But he trusted that God’s character was good and that God’s plan was worth following. This echoes Abraham, who “went out, not knowing where he was going” (Hebrews 11:8), trusting God’s character more than demanding complete understanding.

Third, faith accepts responsibility without demanding complete understanding. Joseph was called to name the child Jesus—”Yahweh saves”—because “He will save His people from their sins.” Joseph was being asked to participate in God’s salvation plan without understanding exactly how that salvation would be accomplished. Jesus Himself would later say:

“If you love me, you will keep my commandments” (John 14:15).

Love expresses itself through obedience, even when understanding is incomplete.

This is exactly the kind of faith our chaotic world needs. We don’t need faith that promises easy answers to complex problems. We need faith that trusts God’s presence in the complexity. We don’t need faith that guarantees comfortable outcomes. We need faith that believes God’s character is good even when outcomes are uncertain.

When violence interrupts our celebrations, when chaos dominates our headlines, when our personal circumstances seem impossible, we need Joseph’s kind of faith—faith that acts on God’s promises even when we can’t see the complete picture.

Immanuel for Our Time

“And she gave birth to a Son, and he called His name Jesus.” (Matthew 1:25)

The story ends with simple obedience and profound fulfillment. Joseph named the child Jesus—”Yahweh saves”—just as the angel had commanded. But Matthew wants us to remember that this child is also Immanuel—”God with us.”

Here’s what this means for us today, as we close out 2025, in a world that feels increasingly chaotic and uncertain.

First, God doesn’t wait for our circumstances to improve before He shows up. Joseph’s situation was still impossible when God intervened. Mary was still pregnant outside of marriage. The social and legal challenges hadn’t disappeared. But God entered that impossibility and transformed it into the greatest miracle in human history.

God doesn’t wait for our world to become peaceful before He offers His presence. He doesn’t wait for violence to end, for international tensions to resolve, for economic uncertainty to stabilize. He comes as Immanuel—God with us—right into the chaos.

Second, God’s presence is the answer to our fear, not the removal of all threats. The angel told Joseph “do not fear,” but he didn’t promise that everything would be easy. In fact, we know from the rest of the story that Joseph and Mary would soon be fleeing to Egypt as refugees, escaping Herod’s massacre of innocent children.

God’s presence doesn’t eliminate danger—it transforms our relationship to danger. When we know that God is with us, we can face uncertain futures, difficult circumstances, and even genuine threats with courage rather than paralyzing fear.

Third, faith means trusting God’s presence more than demanding God’s explanations. Joseph never got a complete explanation of how virgin birth worked or what his role would entail. But he got something better—he got God’s presence and God’s promise.

We live in a time when everyone wants explanations. Why does God allow violence? Why doesn’t He intervene more dramatically? Why do children suffer? Why does chaos seem to dominate the headlines?

This story doesn’t give us complete explanations—it gives us something better. It gives us Immanuel, God with us in the questions, God with us in the chaos, God with us in the impossibility.

Finally, the incarnation is God’s ultimate statement that He doesn’t stay distant from human suffering—He enters it. The incarnation means that God has experienced human fear, human uncertainty, human pain, human death. When we cry out “Where is God in our chaos?” the answer is “Right here with us, because He became one of us.”

And this presence isn’t temporary. Before Jesus ascended to heaven, He gave His disciples this promise:

“And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age” (Matthew 28:20).

The same “with you” that defined Immanuel continues through His Spirit. One day, this presence will be fully realized when

“the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God” (Revelation 21:3).

From Immanuel to “God himself will be with them”—the story of Scripture is the story of God’s relentless pursuit to be present with His people.

When the Festival of Lights gets interrupted by darkness, we don’t have a God who observes from heaven and offers commentary. We have a God who entered the darkness as the Light of the World. Listen to how John captures this:

“The Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it” (John 1:5).

And earlier in his gospel, John declares:

“And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth” (John 1:14).

The Word didn’t remain distant—He became flesh and dwelt among us.

The darkness at Bondi Beach didn’t overcome the light. The chaos in our world doesn’t overcome God’s presence. The impossibility of our circumstances doesn’t overcome God’s power to transform them.

We are now coming to the end of this year. As you face whatever impossible circumstances you’re dealing with—whether personal, relational, financial, medical, or global—remember Joseph’s story. Remember that God specializes in entering impossibility, not avoiding it. Remember that “do not fear” is God’s promise of presence, not the promise of easy answers.

And remember that the child born in Bethlehem carries two names that define His mission: Jesus, because He saves His people from their sins, and Immanuel, because He is God with us in our chaos.

The question isn’t whether God is powerful enough to fix our problems from heaven. The question is whether we’ll trust that His presence with us in our problems is enough.

Joseph trusted, and God transformed his impossible situation into the greatest miracle in history. The same God who was with Joseph is with you. The same God who entered the chaos of that first incarnation enters the chaos of your circumstances today.

Immanuel. God with us. Not just a theological doctrine, but a daily reality for everyone who, like Joseph, chooses to trust God’s presence more than demanding complete explanations.

That’s the hope we need for our chaotic world. That’s the faith that can face impossible circumstances. That’s the message that transforms everything: God doesn’t stay distant in our chaos—He enters it, and His presence changes everything.